In the city where I used to live, there was a pretty nifty store in a low-income neighborhood that allowed people to learn about computer geek culture – with donations, they were able to build computers, learn programming languages, learn about network security, and so forth.
Once, I went there to donate computer parts. One of the staff members assisting me, an African American lady, noticed my cochlear implant and began telling me about her deaf son. She was hearing, so she wasn’t quite sure how to deal with him in some ways – which is super-common in hearing parents; my own loving parents were like that. So I guess she was looking for a deaf man to give her some advice about how to raise her boy.
She told me that he was acting out in class because he couldn’t always understand teachers, and I nodded – yeah, I can relate to that; I did the same thing in grade school and went to the principal’s office a lot. But then she kept talking and I quickly realized that her son was experiencing a vastly different reality than I did when I was a child. When I was a kid, I was sent to the office to talk to the principal and got sent home to watch TV and that was it. In contrast, this deaf kid’s school had labeled him as a ‘troublemaker’ and wanted to put him in a class for children with aggression disorders. But the thing is, he didn’t have an aggression disorder – he was simply deaf! So they were basically setting him up for failure.
There’s probably a lot of reasons why this kid is experiencing different issues than I did, but I think that a major factor is racism. Authority figures have this tendency to see white people as innocent and racially profile people of color as criminals. So, they feel a need to “intervene” in the life of an African-American deaf boy – but the problem is, their interventions are inappropriate. It would be better to address the root cause of the problem – lack of access to the education causes him to become bored and act out – rather than treat the symptom that fits within preconceived stereotypes. Instead of assuming that every boy of color who acts out has an agression disorder, how about addressing the root cause of the problem?
Worse, it sounded like this lady’s doctor wasn’t really communicating the kid’s needs very well – she kept talking about how she wanted to get him a cochlear implant but the hospital kept telling her no. Later on, she talked about how the kid’s deafness was from nerve damage. I don’t think she realized that nerve damage rules out someone as a cochlear implant candidate – even if the cochlea worked perfectly, the auditory signals wouldn’t be able to get to the brain. I don’t know – it just seemed like a failing of the healthcare system to me.
I haven’t really heard a lot of Deaf people talk about intersectionality, except maybe for LGBT/Deaf issues. I’ve also noticed that the Deaf community is pretty white. I think that we could do a better job of being more inclusive – the Deaf community is a wonderfully empowering environment for a lot of people, so I think it would be awesome if we could expand our community to include everyone, not just people who look like us.

